Sunday, October 27, 2013

The Heart of the Home

Our kitchen is right in the heart of our home. As I type this, I have a pizza casserole in the oven, lasagna noodles and quinoa cooking on the stovetop (in separate pots), and some butter sitting out to reach room temperature to make cookies later. I can hear my husband working in the garage, and watch my kids darting back and forth from bedrooms to living room as they play. Since moving to Texas, I have been able to spend so much more time in the kitchen, and I love it. Besides just enjoying cooking and baking, more time in the kitchen is translating into feeding my family healthier food and dramatically reducing our food budget.

About a year and a half ago, I  came across this website: 100daysofrealfood.com.  I already knew that our eating habits weren't the best, but I began to realize just how many chemicals and artificial foods were in things that were even promoted as healthy. I love 100 Days of Real Food because they are not critical, but very encouraging that every small change starts to add up and can make a big difference. 

I keep it simple and prevent it from becoming overwhelming by focusing on one small area to change at a time.  For example, the very first thing I did was start buying whole grain pasta. The kids didn't even notice the change. Very slowly (remember this started a year and a half ago, and we aren't done yet!), we are changing our diet to healthier, less processed foods, mainly by cooking from scratch and eating more fruits and vegetables. Sometimes it just means reading labels: if you can't pronounce it, you probably shouldn't eat it!

I'm pretty happy with where we are now. We are not 100% "real food," and I don't think we ever will be, but we are eating so much better than we used to. I've been making our own bread for a couple of months now.  It's not completely whole wheat, but better than almost all store bought bread that has a gazillion ingredients I can't pronounce. I never thought I would be the kind of person who keeps two kinds of flour in my pantry. We have recently stopped buying cereal, and I make a homemade granola that we all love for breakfast and snacking. Sometimes the kids like it with milk (like cereal), sometimes with plain yogurt sweetened with a touch of honey. We go through fresh fruit faster than I can buy it. The kids are even getting better about eating vegetables; Joy is like a rabbit the way she gobbles up salads. 

I've even made some personal sacrifices for the cause! I've given up my artificially sweetened restaurant espressos. Omar got me an espresso machine for my birthday, and I make my own lattes with just espresso and milk.  Sometimes for a treat I add honey and cocoa powder or pumpkin pie spice. I've also given up microwave popcorn, and I really prefer our air-popped popcorn with a little butter and salt, or a little ranch seasoning (on my to-do list: make my own ranch mix instead of store bought packets).

But all this real food and cooking from scratch means I'm spending a lot of time in the kitchen. I make bread about every other week (two loaves at a time, one goes in the freezer), and I make granola at least twice a week.  I usually try to make muffins or some similar grab and go breakfast for Sunday mornings in case we are running late and need to eat in the car on the way to church. I keep lunches simple: usually sandwiches with fresh fruit and veggies. And then there's dinner (and other miscellaneous baking and cooking). And I still need time to teach the kids and do chart audits. So to save time, I finally got into freezer cooking. 

I wish I had figured this out a year ago when I was working full time; we would have eaten so much better and would have had so much less stress in the evenings trying to figure out dinner!  If you have not heard of this before, the basic idea is that you spend a few hours prepping a bunch of meals at once, then put them in the freezer, and when it's time to cook, just pull out a meal! I have mostly done crockpot meals. The night before, I move the bag from freezer to fridge, then in the morning, just dump in the crockpot. In the evening, I usually just need to cook some pasta or warm some veggies. So easy, and we have discovered some really delicious recipes. This month, I am doing a couple casseroles, too.

Not only has this saved time, it has saved us money, too.  For one, we have meals planned and ready, so we don't eat out nearly as much as we used to.  Almost not at all.  Two, shopping in bulk and planning our meals has helped us save on our grocery bill. We have cut our grocery budget in half since moving to Texas. 

Simplify, plan, and save. This may sound a little hokey, but the changes happening in our kitchen really reflect the changes we are making in our lives as a whole. We are simplifying our lifestyle by focusing on what's important, planning for the future, and working hard to save money, pay off debt, and be good stewards. So the kitchen really is the heart of our home. 

Thursday, October 3, 2013

My Kids

To start off, let me tell you I just read over my first post on this blog with the description of our life in California. It made me tear up a little remembering how hard everything was. Life has improved so much and in so many ways since we moved to Texas. Praise God for His work in our lives!

And now for one of my favorite types of blog posts, stories of my kids who give me no end of joy and laughter everyday. 

We were outside checking the weather when we heard some fire trucks in the distance. We talked briefly about how they were going to help people then went back inside to finish our circle time. At the end of circle time, William asked if he could do the prayer, and he prayed for the people the firemen were going to help. 

Joy: "Please may I can have pizza again, Daddy, and can I eat it like a bunny?"

We were sitting at the dinner table talking about taking a shower afterward, and Joy says, "We can make two Joys and two Mommies, and then no one will see us anymore...but first we have to brush our hair."

Elijah thought the church business meeting was very exciting. He would sit quietly with me in the foyer, but every time I tried to go back into the sanctuary, he got very excited, clapping and waving and squealing. 

One of the lovely ladies at church asked Joy her name, and Joy responded, "Minnie Mouse Joy."

We were all sitting quietly in the car when William suddenly said, "Daddy, what about Miss Cathy?" (Miss Cathy is his Sunday school teacher.) Omar asked, "What about Miss Cathy?" "Umm...Miss Cathy is cool."

Another day sitting in the car, and William pipes up with, "I love God, and I'm going to act like I love God."

One cloudy day, I told the kids that if it rained, we would put on a movie and make hot chocolate. They grabbed their stools and ran to the window where they stood watching the sky. William told Joy to pray to God for lots of rain. 

It didn't rain, but the next morning, William woke me up at 5:30am in tears, "I thought we were going to have hot chocolate?"

(It rained later that day, and we had hot chocolate.)

Omar: Are you cute like a bird?
Joy: No.
Omar: Hm. Are you cute like a frog?
Joy: No. I'm not cute like animals. I'm cute like humans. 

I gave Joy the job of putting silverware away. She stood on a stool by the drawer, and I set the silverware basket from the dishwasher in the drawer so she could reach it easily. When I checked on her after a few minutes, she was playing with the silverware. I told her to put the silverware away, and she immediately tried to close the drawer (with the silverware basket still sitting in it), said, "Oh, it doesn't fit!" Then jumped down and walked away. 

I've got to start writing these things down daily; there are so many moments that I forget too quickly!